It is guidance only
A letter of wishes is not legally binding. It helps explain your preferences, but it should not be used as a substitute for a professionally prepared will.
About the site
A gentle way to explain what matters.
Letter of Wishes exists to help people create a thoughtful, plain-English document that can guide executors, trustees, guardians, and loved ones alongside a will.
What a letter can do
A letter of wishes can explain personal preferences, family context, hopes for children or dependants, funeral wishes, digital asset guidance, and how you would like trustees to approach discretionary decisions.
It is usually more personal and flexible than a will. It can be updated as your circumstances change, and it helps the people you trust understand the thinking behind your wishes.
Legal Boundaries
It cannot change your will
The letter cannot decide who inherits if your will says something different. Keep the letter consistent with your will and review both after major life changes.
Use advice where needed
Solicitor advice is recommended for overseas assets, business ownership, blended families, dependant care, likely disputes, or if you do not yet have a will.